Monday, July 24, 2006

Nice?

Consequences of being too NICE...in the context of group dynamics

  • most likely, you'd be taken advantage - Why?? because they would not think they would hurt/offend/trouble you in anyway...after all...you're NICE!
  • often results in taking up much of your time to do what you're not supposed to in the first place - i.e. finishing up people's dirty work
  • frustration - since your time is taken up to do other people's work and thus, a lesser time for yourself to do what you intended to do in the first place
  • frustration leads to anxiety - which could raise your blood pressure and all that adrenaline and to a far extend cause heart attack?? ok maybe not...
  • AAARRRRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH - which is self explanatory!

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